Successful People Traits | The Cambridge dictionary defines success as “the achieving of the results wanted or hoped for” and “something that achieves positive results”. And it makes one wonder as to why being “successful” doesn’t equate to or mean, being filthy rich or super famous? Contrary to popular belief, success isn’t associated with being rich or famous, of course being rich or famous is an important indicator of “success”, but you can consider yourself successful if your marriage survives for more than a decade! That is an achievement in itself, at least in the 21st century.
But let’s not get our hopes deflated, just yet. The good news is, famous or rich people, like Kobe Bryant, Bill Gates, Warren Buffet or Chris Rock were not born that way. They made themselves from scratch and started from square one. But there were certain successful traits that they possessed which made it easier for them to achieve the milestones, they dreamt of achieving.
Here are Successful People Traits that you need to have if you dream of making it to the “Big Leagues”!
If you don’t love what you do, you won’t do it with much conviction or passion. Whether you are an actor, singer, teacher, athlete, or aspire to be an accountant, you need to love what you do. That’s the number one trait to possess. Remember, when you love something from the depth of your heart, your brain starts to unravel the genius that lies hidden within you.
Our obsession with an excellent act is so over-whelming that we become oblivious to the hard work, an actor puts in, backstage. Put in the extra hours needed to achieve that perfect score in an exam, that bonus your boss promised or that mile no-one thinks possible of running in one stretch. There are no short-cuts to success, life is not a game people, there are no cheat codes. You have to work really hard, and if you can do that, success will seem less evasive with each extra minute!
Lack of direction, not lack of time, is the problem. We all have twenty-four hour days. Don’t get distracted, don’t let the ease of technology make you complacent towards your goals. Put your phone on airplane mode while you work, study or practice. Your social circle can wait, but your goals cannot!
The wolf on the hill is never as hungry as the wolf climbing the hill. Don’t get satisfied with your current performance, develop a hunger for overachieving, ingrain it in your D.N.A, your work ethic. Don’t settle for less, expect greatness from yourself. Take your mind and your body to the limit because if you don’t, you’ll never learn your true potential. It’s always good to know your true worth, so push yourself to the limit! Be that wolf climbing the hill!
Do not call for black power or green power, call for brain power. You need to unlock your imagination, your brain can do miracles, only when you give it freedom. Come up with innovative solutions to a given problem.
“There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.” – Earnest Hemingway. Improve your work philosophy, your routines and your habits. Seasons don’t stay the same all year, why should you? Improve!
“The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others” – Mahatma Gandhi. Don’t make your “success” about yourself. Don’t forget the sacrifices and the efforts people around you had to make to help you achieve your goals. Serve the people around you by contributing to their success.
Success is stumbling from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm. Don’t let failure demotivate you, or setbacks to wear you down. It is a part of life, life has its fair share of ups and downs, highs and lows. Accept it as something natural or bound to happen. Persist in the face of defeat.